Check whether the conversation still matches the profile
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Open the current profile
Confirm the nickname, declared contact method and recent public information instead of relying on a screenshot or forwarded link.
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Ask direct, non-invasive questions
Clarify current availability, boundaries and terms without requesting identity documents or unrelated personal details.
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Pause on contradictions
A changed account, unfamiliar payment request, pressure, copied media or a story that no longer matches the listing is a reason to stop and reassess.
Urgency and secrecy can be used to bypass judgment
- Pressure to act immediately or keep the conversation secret.
- A request to pay a third party, “manager”, courier or unrelated wallet.
- Threats, blackmail, demands for intimate media or proof of identity.
- Contact details that change repeatedly or do not match the public profile.
- Another person controlling all answers, movement, money or documents.
- Any indication that the person is a minor, coerced, monitored or afraid.
A directory label cannot cancel these warning signs. See the anti-exploitation standard when another person's control or vulnerability may be involved.
Share the minimum information needed for the conversation
Avoid sending passports, identity cards, banking credentials, home addresses, workplace details, private contact lists or intimate media. A stranger can use those details for impersonation, account recovery, blackmail or doxxing even when the original conversation appeared ordinary.
The directory does not collect money for offline interactions
Payment instructions received from a profile, messenger account or another person are outside the directory's transaction control. Do not treat the existence of a profile, a review or a moderation status as confirmation that a payment request is genuine or recoverable.
The only directory payment described on this site is optional VIP placement for an eligible advertiser, governed by the separate publication process .
Choose the response that matches the risk
Immediate danger or crime
Contact Hong Kong emergency services on 999 or use the Hong Kong Police crime-information guidance . Do not wait for a directory response.
Problem with public directory content
Record the exact URL and use the correction/removal path. The directory can assess its own publication; it cannot investigate a crime or provide emergency protection.